Hello all!
I need your advice. It is a minor thing but I just want to know AIBU before I take action!
A friend I lived with at uni 12 years ago came to my hen doo with another of our mutual uni friends (they are besties) before I was married 2 years ago.
It is now her turn to walk down the aisle and I am invited to her hen doo. The only thing is - it is a long way to go and I will know nobody else apart from the bride-to-be herself. The other mutual uni friend cannot attend the hen doo.
Would I be unreasonable to visit her the eve before her hen doo and take her out for a meal and drinks just the two of us to send her on her way? This will be instead of going to the hen doo, whereby I will probably not get the opportunity to speak to the bride-to-be and feel uncomfortable amongst company who all know each other well.
I know she came to my hen doo but she did have someone there she knew well.
Your comments will be appreciated!
Thanks :)