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To let my children go fast on the roundabout and expect parents with babies to wait their turn.

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yousankmybattleship · 27/07/2012 15:01

So, we're at the playground this morning and my three had waited quite a while to go on the roundabout. When it finally became free they all went on and started whizzing round. A couple of minutes later a mum with a tiny baby cam up and asked them to go slowly so she could put her baby on it. They were really nice about it and pushed it very slowly while the baby had her little ride, then she got off. They started whizzing again and leaping off etc etc - generally having bigger children fun. Anyway, less than 5 minutes later two Mums came up with toddlers and told my children that they had to go slowly. I wasn't with them - I was sitting on the grass a bit to the side. Two of my children pushed slowly again but my Ds (age 6) stomped off towards me very crossly. I told him just to sit with me for a bit and let the toddlers have a turn and then I'd explain to the other Mums that it was time for the big ones to go quickly again. I also said to him that I didn't blame him for being cross! We gave them 5 mins or so and then I went back over with my DS. One Mum was taking her toddler off anyway, the other one seemed determined to keep her little darling on there so I just said that it was time for the bigger ones to have their turn. Her daughter had a tantrum as she took her off and she muttered about us as she walked away.

Anyway, was I being unreasonable to think my children should have been ablet to have their turn without constant inerruptions from toddler Mums? If the Mums had just waited to the side I would, of course, have said mine had to get off and let them have a turn once they'd had a fair crack of the whip. Surely bigger children don't always have to give way for little ones...

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Goldenbear · 27/07/2012 16:52

Where are all these older children whose needs are trumped by toddlers?? At our parks in the summer holidays I've been asked by children to remove my toddler from the sandpit as they were building a huge moat and she kept falling in it. Another charged past her on the climbing frame knocking her off the steps, telling her to mind out- he was about 9!

maddening · 27/07/2012 16:54

how long is a turn? It's tricky with roundabouts and swings as 5-10 mins is a long go really

onebigwish · 27/07/2012 16:59

I can't picture being het up by this.

But in your shoes I think I'd be telling the older children that they just needed to go slowly while the little ones are on.

If there are spare seats I don't see why the smaller ones shouldn't go on it.

Mind you this drove me mad at Peppa pig world - queueing for seats on a ride that takes four people and there only being one or two people in the ride.

halcyondays · 27/07/2012 17:17

Yanbu, I always told mine to wait if the roundabout was going to fast for them.

Sirzy · 27/07/2012 17:25

I think as your children had had 5 minutes then it wasn't unreasonable for someone else to want a turn. If they had only just got on then fair enough but they shouldn't be able to stay on as long as they want when others are waiting

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