long history, but ds (17) has been a nightmare of late; stealing from us, missing college basically taking us for a ride. We have tried many things to try to bring him back to the lad he was and on the face of it seems to have worked but when I dig deeper it hasn't.
Whilst I know that I shouldn't have I have checked his fb messages (the only way he can communicate as I have blocked his phone to outgoing calls texts) after I caught him stealing again (he admitted it to me and said sorry....) to and from his girlfriend and there are things on there that I am not happy about. For instance he owes her mum money, he has made us out to be completely unreasonable and he is the complete innocent in life
He gf is due to be out for an hour and I have found her mum's phone number and I really want to call her to find out how much he owes her and why he was lent money and also to set straight the whole issues - but I only found all this out by snooping and i know that if I do call her then all hell will break loose when ds gets home (hes out with his mates)
what do I do??