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to think that Britain's piss-can culture is a bloody disgrace?

57 replies

madmomma · 24/07/2012 20:27

Or am I just getting old and boring? I like a drink as much as the next person, but it seems to me that our drinking culture is just crazily out of control . I live in a pretty deprived area, so maybe that has something to do with it, but when I walk around my town centre there are so many people drinking in the day time. And I don't mean one, with lunch. People drinking with a view to carrying on through the afternoon. It just seems to be that people who drink moderately or not at all are in the minority these days and binge/heavy drinking is the norm. I'm 33 so maybe someone older would say that it's always been this way and I've just started to notice it. I think it's pretty gross really. Boring old fart?

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scottishmummy · 24/07/2012 21:47

gin palaces
alcoholism
crime gangs
...always has scandalised and gone on for centuries

squeakytoy · 24/07/2012 21:50

"If a person acts like a twat when drunk its because they are a twatvwhen sober!! Alcohol is no excuse"

I wouldnt agree with that either. I know a few people who are absolutely fine when sober, but when they get pissed they completely change, behave out of character, and are generaly bloody annoying.

thebody · 24/07/2012 21:58

Yes but SQEAK, they should give up alcohol, if a person is a twat in drink then it's their responsibility to give up..

Just hate this oh but I was twatted culture, no excuse at all...

That's what I have always tried to instill into my kids anyway.

Fwiw alcohol has always been a huge part of British culture for centuries and not since 1980.

QueenofPlaids · 24/07/2012 22:36

I'm not sure how much drinking itself is actually changing, but I do think bingeing is becoming mores acceptable.

(I recall at our uni health sign up we were all asked how much we drank per week & news you we abstinent the answer was uniformly '10 units' though I doubt the reality was.)

Having said that, I like a glass of wine. In fact, quite a lot of wine. To the extent where DP and I are trying to cut down because we realised that whilst not drunk, it was still too much (& money we could redirect elsewhere).

This is where I get awfully confused because I cannot for the life of me understand how someone who is supposedly unpractised (e.g. Once a week drinker) could knock back 2 bottles of red wine and then drink nothing through the etc. i was pretty practised and that would leave me on my backside, if not in hospital.

QueenofPlaids · 24/07/2012 22:40

PS iPad is evil - Apologies for weird typos. The bit up the top about uni should read 'unless you were abstinent'. Other typos - of which there are a few - hopefully very obvious.

garlicbutter · 24/07/2012 22:44

I do believe in vino veritas. There are lots of people who control their nastiness when sober but, if a person's nasty when drunk, I wouldn't bet they're nice at home sober. Any pub landlord/lady would agree: nice people are nice drunks.

YY to everybody who's said it never changes! It just wears different clothes and goes in & out of fashion. We're Northern Europeans historically and, I don't know about you, but I find a crowd of pissed-up Germans just as edifying as Brits. Scandinavians go bloody bonkers when they can afford some booze. (Generalising, of course, as we are here.)

The beer, Porter, which used to be drunk as we now drink tea, was a strong stout. It's quite wrong to assume the beer was weak because it was drunk in such vast quantities. In apple counties, they drank cider the same way - this was the cloudy cider that now goes by amusing names to reflect how strong it is! Children drank the beer and cider, too.

Northern Europeans genetically have a much higher tolerance for alcohol than most other human varieties, probably because of the brewing/boiling thing. We've always been drunkards, too, though it doesn't seem to have stopped us getting things done :)

I am most annoyed that my legendary ability to drink has suddenly vanished! I guessed it would happen one day ... but I miss it.

thebody · 24/07/2012 22:54

Totally garlicbutter! Good post

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