Thank you for this thread - it has made interesting reading.
I have suffered from crippling migraines all my life. They really kicked in badly at puberty, were better when I was breastfeeding, (both times), and now, mid-menopause they have been two or three a month, each lasting three or four days.
Agree with Orenishii that they are not just a headache. Mine start with a strange, drugged, disorientated, feeling and I lose the feeling in my right side, cannot focus my eyes. The pain starts and I sometimes pass out. I can't keep anything down and am sick constantly. Like others I spend hours lying on the bathroom floor. I am out of action for three days and not very good for the day afterwards. They have wrecked Christmas, weddings, my A-level English exam, dates, birthdays and job interviews let alone seriously affected my work, (and I am freelance so if I don't work I don't get paid). My DP feels powerless to help yet angry because it is not just my days that are ruined - everyone loses out.
I have also tried so many things - and am currently on Amitriptyline as a preventative measure, Imigram, (nasal spray and tablets), Naproxen, Motillium suppositories to ease sickness. I also take ibruprofen and Solpadeine. The Amitriptyline seems to have decreased the frequency and severity but I am not free of them. I know my triggers, (cigarette smoke, alcohol, stress, driving, (esp in low winter sun like RainyAfternoon said), neck pain, dehydration, hunger, (agree about blood sugar).
Agree with Gettingagrip that they are time stealers. So many lost weekends, chunks of time gone from the middle of a holiday, projects abandoned.... There are times when I have felt suicidal.
I don't often talk about them, in fact try to hide them as I need to keep up a "capable and professional front" in order to get work and anyway, what can you say...?
Reading this thread I felt a real sense that there were other people who knew what it was to live with this - I've not met anyone else who does, (except my mother), and I felt much more hopeful. Thanks - and let's not give up tring to find some way of stopping them for good.