that internet dating is such a head feck

[wannabeamillionaire]

I met this guy and really really liked him. couple of months later, (after a few omg I was working, phone was dead, hamster died) you get the drift. I am hooked :(..

Then the little fecker admits that " I have been married for x years but she is 12 years older and we have no relations in the bedroom department going on"..

So being fecking gullible I carry on seeing him believing every fucking word he says....

anyway, tonight I have came to my senses and told the little fucker to fuck off and how dare he treat me and his poor wife like this.... thank god I never slept with the fat bastard :) and now he says

thats internet dating for you :(

more of a rant really

I met a good one. But i met 5 rubbish ones before him. But i did get 5 free dinners, so no loss

I also met a good one. I met far more than 5 shit ones before that though.

omg - that's not internet dating, that's just him being a twat.
i met my dh online but i don't have much experience of internet dating cause he's the second person i went out with from tinernet.

I am a little gutted though. i am meant to be a mature woman who can tell the idiots etc...... silly thing is I am quite happy on my own, its my kids that keep on at me to meet someone... If they are all like him then i would rather do without :)... still gutted though

Well done you! Move on, don't give up. There's a good few twunts out there, but a few good 'uns too. My friend is having a fab time with it x

Iwould have stopped seeing him as soon as he said he was married, but that is me. I have only met sharks on the internet, circling around me trying to knock me out of the safety of my dinghy and gobble me up. ALL ROTTON CONNING SLIMY CUNTS.

A good test is if the add you as a fb friend. If not then they have something to hide.

Sole: he only admitted he was married last date and on the next one I told him was not going to go there :( I didnt see him for months and then decide :)

anyway tonight I am gutted morro is another day

But can a freind be added to FB but that friend be hidden/secret to all others on teh account except the person that has added/owne of account?

it was not fb it was a stupid dating site that my mates made go on...... he is a wanker simple as that and i am going to move on..... morro...... after I have cried lol. which is so stupid cos if my mum was here she would kick my ass

He was not free to be with you, he is married but just wants to find somebody for the physical release of sex. Do his business. He told you because he wants you to know he will never leave her. That's my mind anyway. I have been lied to so much by guys on the net I have been scared away. Works for some and the match.com adverts claim 1 in 5 marriages start from meeting online. Love/sex/relatuionships/men mess with our head if we let it. You didn't THAT'S A REALLY GOOD SIGN X

yr right... morro is another day... have text him and told him never to contact me again but obviously in a lot stronger words..... but will not give him the satisfaction of ranting abuse... he made me feel so good about myself that I have been flying the last couple of months and feel good about myself (except for tonight). But morro I shall look in mirror (after make up lol) and say
feck me you look good lol and I am a fecking nice person x

Yes YOU ARE he is not, willing to chaet on his wife who he still sleeps with or tries. I have had guys on the net tell me they're married, cannot leave, hate her guts, separate rooms etc If it was soo bad they can leave/divorce. All lies and we/you/I deserve a free, caring honest guy.

IF ONE FUCKING EXISTS!!!!!!!!!

We can be hurt I think no matter how we feel inside about ourselves but a man is the cherry on the cake not the whole cake. If you want a guy in order to feel sexy, desired and worthwhile, you're not ready. You have to love you and already feel those things. I am working on this now with a therapist.