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Bad mother for staying/going/having gone in the first place? Camping story...

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solidgoldbrass · 15/07/2012 00:26

So we went for a weekend away, camping at a folk festival. The idea was that we would do all the dancing and stuff today and then I would take DS on the steam train tomorrow. And as we were camping, we went down there yesterday evening, with a new tent.

And the new tent fucking leaks. Which probably serves me right for buying it from Pounstretchers instead of Milletts anyway, but it leaks quite a lot. I thought I had managed to block and mop up the worst last night, and the sleeping bags were dry enough when we got into them, but this morning they were thoroughly damp all over (DS: Mummy, my bed's wet but I didn't wet it...')
Then it rained all day today, so I said to DS we will come back another time and ride on the steam train, we are going home tonight, we are not sleeping in wet sleeping bags in a small lake again.

So am I a horrible irresponsible mother for letting him sleep in a wet tent? I know this isn't an Elinor Brent Dyer novel and we won't get consumpton or rheumatic fever and die from one wet night... Or am I a big wuss mother for not being prepared to sleep another night underwater myself?

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bogeyface · 15/07/2012 23:43

Was it Catherine Bennet that got 3 raindrops on her bonnet and had to spend a month in bed at a neighbours house?

Those were the days Wink

ExitPursuedByABear · 15/07/2012 23:47

Camping. Why?

It was Jane who had to stay over and Elizabeth visited her, in the rain. Methinks.

seeker · 15/07/2012 23:53

You will undoubtedly come down with rheumatic fever tomorrow.

It was Jane who got dangerously ill after a wet ride engineered by her mother. Elizabeth yomped through wet and muddy fields unscathed apart from a heightened complexion.

HoleyGhost · 15/07/2012 23:54

Next time you take a cheap tent camping, bring duct tape to seal off any leaks.

As always, you made the best decision you could, based on the info and kit you had. A wet tent in a miserable July is annoying, in October it would have been more of a problem

CBChester · 15/07/2012 23:54

Gotta have a decent tent for a fest especially in this weather Wink I'm just glad Glasto wasn't on this year! We'll be there next year rain or shine (assuming we get tickets) DCs already talking about it, it'll be their 3rd time and I can recommend as the best family hol money can buy Grin (with heavy duty rainproof tent!)

bogeyface · 15/07/2012 23:55

Ahh, i knew it was one of them, only read half the book years ago! I love the idea that if a guest at your home got a slight head cold then you were honour bound to care for them until they recovered. You could easily live rent free for years by faking bronchitis at every house you visit!

Snort at "wet ride"

solidgoldbrass · 16/07/2012 07:51

DS is not only not dead but free of even a sniffle - and entirely consoled for the loss of rustic steam train ride (which would have been a line he has ridden on before anyway) by a trip to a more local miniature railway.

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