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AIBU?

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To think hormones are making me seriously screw loose

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BBisHavingAnotherBBaby · 14/07/2012 10:16

Firstly I will say that there are much bigger sadder things happening today, and in the world in general, and I know This thought alone should be the kick i need, but at the moment i just feel shit. Also this is probably just a self indulgent whine.

I am 15w with a much wanted DC2, we had been TTC for over 2 years. I am Happy to be pregnant, but i dOnt feel as excited as I did with DS, which makes me feel guilty.

My DS is a very easy going boy, a good sleeper and again he alone should be a reason to ditch this miz im in.

My DP is reasonably supportive he does his fair share round the house and works hard etc.

As you can see i really have nothing to
Worry about, BUT

We are getting married in may and have money to find for it, i also feel a bit stresse by the dress side of things, especially ad there will be 4months max between DC2 and wedding day.

I also feel a bit like some of my frendships are superficial I often feel like I make all the effort, I feel a bit like peoples option a lot of the time.

I find myself feeling a bit like everyone elses social life is better than mine, and when im not invited places or involved in conversations, I percieve it as a slight.

I feel a bit scared about filling my days with two DCs, and I know i should try to make new friends but im unsire how easy that will be..

None of this Is really major but AIBU to just feel like sloping off to bed for a cry? Maybe its just hormones.

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MammaTJ · 14/07/2012 10:58

It probably is just hormones, but they are real and make you feel really shitty sometimes.

Being afraid of coping with two is normal too. Have a look around for mum and toddler groups. I found them a great help when my two were younger.

BBisHavingAnotherBBaby · 14/07/2012 12:03

Thanks i feel so silly on one hand but feel so shit on the other. Im hoping that it will pass.

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Hawkmoon269 · 14/07/2012 12:04

Nothing wrong with a good cry! It probably is (mainly) hormones but that doesn't help you feel any less miserable does it Smile

Maybe arrange to see a friend who you do feel close to and have a blurt (and cake).

Count your blessings and snuggle your little boy.

Congratulations on getting married and your pregnancy!

BBisHavingAnotherBBaby · 15/07/2012 07:57

Thanks the foul mood seems to of passed mainly, Dp and I had a talk last night about various things which has helped a bit. I think sometimes you just nee a good cry haha

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