to implement a strict routine for older DCs?

[two2blackcats]

My older DCs are in years 7 and 8. We live a long way from the school (rural area) so the bus only drops them off at 5 pm. We don't usually eat until later - about 7 - so they have a snack and do their homework. Homework has to be done before watching TV or seeing any of their friends. Sometimes their friends ring up asking them to go around but I say no until homework is done.

I am a full time working mum and don't want to be doing a lot of laundry so I tell them to stay in their uniforms, obviously they take off ties and untuck shirts and so on.

Finally, how much TV should they watch? They don't have TVs in their rooms, so they are essentially supervised when they watch TV, and I usually allow a maximum of 2 hours an evening - bedtime is between 9.30 and 10pm. Is this reasonable?

The DCs are complaining loudly about the above and I'm doubting myself - aibu?

It all sounds reasonable to me. I think 2 hours is plenty of TV time.

I also hear you on the washing thing. I fucking hate that job. I seethe just thinking about it. But, you could get them to do a load or two during the week - do a trial period or something - and if they can sort their uniforms out properly - like have them washed and dried and ready for ironing (if you iron, I don't) without too much hassle, you could relax your stance on the uniform thing.

you are doing fine.

television should not be measured in hours. use a television guide and let them plan what they want to see in the coming week.

you are teaching good habits for life. i admire you.

What will you do when they rebel?