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'If I was' - is this incorrect?

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Hamishbear · 13/07/2012 12:52

'If I was' - am I correct in thinking this should always be 'If I were'?

So therefore Midge Ure is incorrect in calling his song 'If I was' it should have been 'if I were'? That will date me :)

Just discussing with someone who tells me I am incorrect?

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ThisIsAUsername · 13/07/2012 12:54

Off you pop

HecateHarshPants · 13/07/2012 12:55

I think it's were if it can't be true because it's not possible and was if it could be

so - if I were 21 again... If I were you...

or if I was slimmer...

If that makes any sense Grin

Hamishbear · 13/07/2012 12:55

Thanks, Blush

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LeB0f · 13/07/2012 12:55

It's 'if I were', because it's the subjuctive tense.

RuleBritannia · 13/07/2012 13:00

There's a secondary tense called Conditional Tense. We were taught it at grammar school. Most of us say, "If I were you ...."

If there is a 'condition' in the sentence (if, whether, unless, I wish etc) it should be 'were'.

If I were you
If I were to explain it, you would understand
Unless you were to give ....
Whether I not I were to address the problem ....

wildfig · 13/07/2012 13:02

.. as in the more grammatically correct 'If I were a rich man'. yadda dabble dabble dabble dubble daa

lagartija · 13/07/2012 13:20

It should be were but was is also now accepted usage.

RichTeas · 13/07/2012 13:24

It is most definitely "if I were..." but I have noticed that even some well spoken individuals are now resorting to "if I was..." (though I certainly would not recommend it).

Unitedwestand · 13/07/2012 17:58

I thought it was If I was

frustratedpants · 13/07/2012 18:03

If I were slimmer. Wink

SpamMarie · 13/07/2012 19:24

It should be, 'if I were' but there are much worse crimes against grammar. At least you didn't say, 'you was...' That makes me cringe inside.

I'll go and join frustrated in pedantic corner now.

HecateHarshPants · 13/07/2012 19:27

Grin I stand corrected.

I have always separated them by 'can it happen'? yes = was no = were.

I had thought this was a rule, but apparently it's one I've made up myself Grin

SeventhEverything · 13/07/2012 19:33

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chandellina · 13/07/2012 19:34

Weirdly I was just thinking of this this morning, and it was also the Midge Ure song that drew my attention to it back in the day. No one uses it though.

DarrowbyEightFive · 13/07/2012 19:50

It essentially depends if you would prefer to take a prescriptive view of grammar (ie what you read in grammar books is a reflection of 'correct English' and you should therefore follow the advice contained therein), or a descriptive view (ie grammar books simply reflect and describe the way English is spoken by a majority of people, and there is no single overall 'correct English'). Those who like the former would go for 'I I were', and if you fancy the latter you would be in favour of 'If I was'. The vast majority of people in the UK today use 'If I was', and a small minority - most of whom listen to Radio 4 - look down their noses at it.

PS I listen to Radio 4 :) but rather sit on the fence with this issue. Unlike the fewer/less debacle, which makes me shudder.

maybenow · 13/07/2012 19:53

I would say 'if i were you' but i'd also say 'if i was standing over there'... hmm... wonder if there's a difference.. off to google..

LordEmsworth · 13/07/2012 19:57

Sometimes, "if I was" is correct, if it refers to something that may or may not have happened.

As in: "If I was being rude, then I apologise".

"If I were" refers to the fact that I am not. It's an expression of an altered state of being / something that's not real - "if I were slimmer", "if I were a rich man", "if I were you". (Hecate - that's the case whether it's possible you might be in that altered state one day, or impossible...).

eslteacher · 13/07/2012 19:59

It's a quirk of this particular instance of the Second Conditional:

Zero Conditional: It's true every time - present tense in the condition, present tense in the result (If you heat water to 100 degrees, it boils)

First Conditional: The probable/possible future - present tense in the condition, future tense in the result (If we finish on time, I'll be home by 6pm)

Second Conditional: The improbable/imaginary present or future - past tense in the condition, would+infinitive in the result (If I won the lottery, I would buy a big house)

Third Conditional: The imaginary past that didn't happen - past perfect in the condition, would + present perfect in the result (If I had been there, I would have seen there)

Normally we never say "I were x" we'd say "I was x" (ie "I were at the cinema earlier, sounds incorrect). But for some reason, in this particular instance of the second conditional, we often say "if I was you". It's more of a grammatical quirk than a hard and fast rule.

At least that's how I teach it to my ESL students. I am not a linguistic expert though!

eslteacher · 13/07/2012 19:59

I would have seen *him

eslteacher · 13/07/2012 20:00

I have drunk too much wine this evening. I shouldn't attempt any kind of grammatical teachings in this state.

we often say "if I WERE you"...

sugarice · 13/07/2012 20:01

Get some wine, it might become more clear. Grin

CatholicDad · 13/07/2012 20:21

Never ever occurred to me before!

Still not as annoying as the Paul McCartney one though..

kim147 · 13/07/2012 20:23

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eurochick · 13/07/2012 20:24

"If I were" is in the subjunctive tense.

kim147 · 13/07/2012 20:27

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