So last night we were out as a team and everyone had had quite a bit to drink.
Towards the end of the night I got chatting to the director of our department, so very senior and my bosses boss. He's (normally) a lovely bloke and very much one of the people so very easy to talk to and have a laugh with.
Anyway I mentioned that another colleague had flown in today and so the director said he was going to text him and get him to join us at the pub. I said fine but please don't say that it was me that said he had flown in as I'm not sure if he wanted everyone to know.
Anyway te director started this text with "questiontime says..." I laughingly tried to get the phone off him so he grabbed my arm and gave me a really really painful Chinese burn. I cried out and he proceeded to do it another two times.
He then started telling me that I had totally ruined my career by leaving the department after only a year and a half in the team (I recently got a new job and start in sept) and that I would never be able to work in his department again. That I was far too ambitious for my age and couldn't expect to progress like I have been doing.
I don't know where all this came from but he hurt me physically and emotionally.
I suppose what I'm asking is am I overreacting to be upset?