Reading other threads about PTA/FOS thought I'd throw this one out there as its been a longtime chip on my shoulder.
When DS1 started school I went to PTA meetings and got involved. The level of fundraising and effort is admirable and generally friendly not a press ganged approach. Got to accounts and discovered a five figure sum had been handed over to fund a project for the school on enhancing the school paths/entry. There wasn't much wrong with the old ones but to give such a huge sum with no questioning shocked me! How much pocket money paid over at stalls and fayres just went. A few yrs later and again PTA with no backbone agrees to a similar request! Aibu?