to be upset when DH lets ASD DD watch bits of 18 rated films/PS3 games..

[fallingwater]

My DD1 is eight. She has echolalia, social communication issues nad a BIG issue with authority- especially MINE. SHe told me to "STUFF YOUR MOUTH" this afternoon when I wasn't even talking to her. So I calmly asked her to come to the upstairs room cos DH said don't worry, leave her with me. When I asked him if he had heard what she said to me, he answered with a HUH??
Then he told me.."she probably picked it up from this game I'm playing..."
AIBU to want him to censor what she sees on telly ??!

Last night, on something else entirely, it again boiled down to him asking me, "D'you want a divorce??" I suggested we see a counsellor from RELATE, and I am now armed with local locations, timings, and days/dates we could do this together.... I don't know how he will feel about it, since he's gone back to work today after two weeks' annual leave... this is the first time I have felt so strongly about this- do I say yes, let's see a solicitor, if he VETOes the idea of RELATE as it costs 46 pounds a session ..!??? (something we may have to think about, cos he has all the savings in his name, from both our jobs, but calls it our money..)
MiL is leaving my house with her mom n brother in october-end and he wants to give 10,000 pounds to her to do as she pleases with it...

This is not really about the games its about you and your oh being on the same page

I think when hes at wirk just sking the bloody thing out bar that sit down and have a talk about both your views and meet in the middle