Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think this is a RUDE way to behave???

27 replies

SoggyGinga · 08/07/2012 12:08

Boyfriend catches me on facebook a minute ago, he tells me he's at his mothers and asks how I am. I tell him I'm ok. He asks me how my weekend has been, I begin to tell him and he says "cool, mum has just dished up curry lol, catch you later. Bye x" ??? It's not just a facebook thing, he's like this in real life. I'd took him to work one day, he was about to get out of the car and then asks me if I fancied going out later that night - I began to say "yes, I do but first I'll have to - " and with that he gets out, shuts the car door and walks off into walk saying "Bye!"
Rude, rude bastard. It really fucks me off.
Another example, we're sat at a table waiting got our meal. He asks me how my holiday was, I reply "oh it was lovely, when is it you go to Greece?" and he replies "yeah" ????? oh - my bad, he's spotted someone elses dinner and is distracted Hmm as usual I'm pushed way down the list of priorities. I call him up on it "yeah?? why did you say yeah? that makes no sense?" he looks startled and says "um? oh sorry I was distracted, what were you saying?" - yeah because I don't mind repeating myself everytime you become "distracted", honestly. So a few minutes later - I'm saying "I've been thinking, there was an advert on for Ireland a few days ago and " I am cut short with "yeah. Ummm this looks nice!!" as a waitress approaches with our meals.

AIBU or is he just fucking rude??? yes I am annoyed so apologies for namechange and the ranting but todays example ("ooo mum has just served me a meal! cya!") really fucked me off.

OP posts:
VolAuVent · 08/07/2012 19:17

You need to find someone who listens to you. Otherwise you might as well go out with a cardboard cutout.

Madeyemoodysmum · 08/07/2012 20:49

My in laws do this Drives me crazy!!
I'm stuck with them tho. In your situation I think it would end up driving me away. Sorry :0(

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread