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To think that 2012 can fuck right off.

58 replies

babyheaves · 06/07/2012 11:48

Just that really. 2012 has been a steaming bag of shite so far and after further bad news today, I just want to say fuck right off 2012.

Am I alone? Is there anyone else out there who has a gripe with the way that 2012 is panning out?

If yes, come and share with me why 2012 can fuck right off for you.

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IcanandIwill · 06/07/2012 13:27

Yeah I'm very fortunate to have wonderful family and friends. It's the only way one got this far. People can be pretty amazing when life decides to throw a whole heap of crap at you!

valiumredhead · 06/07/2012 13:30

Last year was terrible - this year not so bad. Hope next year is better for you OP x

thebody · 06/07/2012 13:42

Good that you have support Ican, and it often in my experience comes from unexpected sources, people you don't expect to be the best often are..

IcanandIwill · 06/07/2012 13:49

You are so right about that *thebody. There are some amazing people out there.

SoleSource · 06/07/2012 14:03

((Ican))

2012 IS SHIT
2011 WAS SHIT
2010 WAS SHITTER
2009 WAS WORST
2008 WAS AWFUL
2007 NOT GOOD
2006 BAD
2005 THE WORST YAER OF MY LIFE WITH REGARDS TO ILLNESSES

babyheaves · 06/07/2012 14:11

Seconds the amazing people thing.

I've really been lucky to have the support of some very special people.

The year's still been shite though,

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IcanandIwill · 06/07/2012 14:25

Yep still well and truly shite.

elkiedee · 06/07/2012 14:50

I can sympathise a lot with the sentiments expressed by OP, though my bad experiences sound trivial compared with those here.

I learned about expat's daughter yesterday, though it was through someone I know totally outside mumsnet, I realised it was someone on mn because of our mutual friends, didn't know who, I'm so so sorry.

My boss from 2006-2011 is dying of cancer, he maybe has a few days left. He was the loveliest, brightest man I've ever met, one of the things that is so sad is that the cancer has affected his brain - he knows who I am but what he says no longer makes sense.

I've also lost my job in a rather nasty restructure, but am having to work nearly 4 months from being told - quite a few of us are going including the head of department's PA. While it hasn't happened because of my boss's illness, it hasn't helped - the outcome might have been different if he had been able to return to work as he would have fought to maintain his support and specifically for me. He predicted a few months ago when he still hoped to come back to work that his return would be my best hope - as he's blind and couldn't do his job without the support of a reader/secretary/sighted assistant.

2010 and 2011 were not great either - my mum was diagnosed with cancer twice though she seems to have come through at the moment, and her best friend (who had the sort of role when I was a small child that a godparent might play) died in a house fire.

Although it's not an emotional issue, just infuriating and stressful, a lot of things have broken down in my house, two of them twice - the fridge has lasted 3 months after being repaired under guarantee, a computer lasted 4 days and I still have to chase PC World on a promise to pay the repair bill.

Let's hope that the end of this year/next year brings better for everyone.

usualsuspect · 06/07/2012 14:53

It started off really well with the birth of a lovely Grandchild , but it went steadily down hill after that TBH

babyheaves · 06/07/2012 20:13

elkiedee thats a heck of a lot of crap to deal with.

Usual - see you on the Drunk Thread.

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ReindeerBollocks · 06/07/2012 20:47

Horrid year so far with no signs of improvement.

My sympathies for all those going through difficult times, I hope that the future will be kinder to you.

Gigondas · 06/07/2012 20:56

Can I join in- was diagnosed with cancer when dd2 was 2 weeks old. So loads of treatment and a not great prognosis when should have been a lovely time.

Echo what others say about it makes you appreciate the simple things and the help you do get.

But sooner me than any of my family so my heart goes out to Ican, expat
And all the others who have lost or have poorly family.

MadamFolly · 06/07/2012 21:16

You guys gave put perspective on my day - it was truly horrid but nothing compared to what some of you have had.

Its actually spurred me into doing some meditations which I have neglected for many years. I have been running them for others but not doing them myself which is terrible. I kept expat and Ican in my thoughts while doing them today and have lit some incence and candles for you.

microserf · 06/07/2012 22:35

thanks for the much needed perspective ladies. i'm so sorry for your losses. it puts my difficulties in a different light.

personally, i'd like to boot 2012 into the middle of 2090. super shitty year. can't wait for it to be over. my luck really must change for 2013.

fairyfriend · 06/07/2012 22:46

If I could, I'd roll 2012 up and shove it up its own arse.
I've lost my grandad after a horrible illness (diagnosis was this year too); my DH was the victim of an armed robbery; I've lost my best friend; we had a horrible health scare with my DS2 (nothing compared to some others, I'm grateful for that) and DS2 has also been diagnosed with a chronic illness.
Like another poster has said, loads of little things too. Very few stress free days.
And to top it all, IT IS STILL FUCKING RAINING!

justinhawkinsnavalfluff · 06/07/2012 22:47

Wow this has really put my shitty 2012 into perspective - dd spent week in oxygen tent, my grandad died of liver cancer, my grandmother had a heart attack and my mil got breast cancer - big hugs to you all x

IcanandIwill · 06/07/2012 22:47

Thanks for the good wishes and here's to kicking 2012 in the backside. Life really is shitty sometimes and I'm sending good vibes to everyone of you dealing with its crap.

BrainSurgeon · 09/07/2012 12:01

Having such a shit day today, I'm barely keeping myself together, and I don't even have anything going on half as bad as some other posters here.
I fucking hate being depressed :( :( :(

ChrissasMissis · 09/07/2012 13:33

Am so with you on this one. 2012 is horrible.

My Mum died unexpectedly and painfully. This lead to some financial difficulty for my Dad, so the money DP and and I had for our wedding had to be used to pay for her funeral. We then had to cancel our wedding. Then a stone dropped out of my engagement ring. We are also broke.

Am looking forward to 2013.

babyheaves · 09/07/2012 15:48

ChrissasMissis - I'm so sorry for your loss and having to put your life on hold. I really, really hope that 2013 brings you a mountain of joy.

brain you have my sympathy. I could barely move this morning and was on the phone to the CT. Now I'm a bit better after getting out, but its just so hard some days. Depression and MH issues suck.

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IcanandIwill · 09/07/2012 17:33

I'm hoping 2013 is a whole lot better for all of us. Or at least that 2012 redeems itself somehow (tho I can't possibly imagine how).

babyheaves · 09/07/2012 18:53

Icanandiwill, short of a lottery win or an all expenses paid trip to the Bahamas (not in hurricane season) with free child care and johnny depp in a thong, this year is a write off!

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EnglishEponine · 09/07/2012 19:26

Shitty year here as well, though nowhere near as shitty as others upthread.

Financial and family turmoil from an inheritance battle, grandmother's heart problems have returned with little hope of improvement, dad diagnosed with diabetes and is doing fuck all to help himself, I've been diagnosed with depression so suicidal most of the time and getting a migraine nearly every day, I've failed the first year of my degree so that's effectively about £8000 down the drain, my best friend has relapsed in her chronic illness, and have lost a couple of elderly aunts and uncles to age/illness.
SO FUCK OFF 2012 YOU BASTARD.

babyheaves · 09/07/2012 19:47

English - you sound like you've had an absolute shitter of a time. Uni's will take it into consideration if you talk to them.

Much empathy and hugs re depression.

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flumposie · 09/07/2012 21:03

sorry to hear about everyone's crap year - same here too, lost the love of my life when my 2 year old daughter was the exact same age i was when my dad died - just want to scream 'Why us/me' so yes 2012 will go down as the shittest year of my life too