suituation is this.
i have a baby that i wish to get christened, babys dad and i are same religon he also wants baby christened.
i attend church, he never attends. i surgested he choose 2 god parents and i choose 2.
incidently god parents are just godparents i.e to assist with spritual things and NOTHING to do with where child lives should either of us peg it.
he agreed to this. now hes decided he hates my bestfriend who is also a regular church attendee, is a godmother for all my other children,his only reason for hating her is that he thinks she dislikes him, she has never been anything less than compleatly polite and friendly to him. i am also god mother to all her children.
i chose my bestfriend and one other close long standing friend of mine and had no input or anything into who he picked.i dont even know the 2 he picked
he has now kicked off about my choice and then refused to allow me to have baby christened. so the choices are
- no christening
- christening but without my choice of godparents
i think hes being unreasonable but obviously he thinks im being unreasonable.
what do you reckon?