okay maybe not months in advance - but a month or two would be nice. Still no idea when DP will be working any date after 31st July. Will we get a summer holiday? When should I book DD1 into activity camps for? Can we go to a festival? Is it worth buying train tickets to get to the Olympic game we have tickets for? Who knows!
Now I feel better. It's not his fault & I keep ranting at him about it 