My chinese aunt comes over every 2 weeks to babysit so that we can go out. Its a bit of a mutual benefit. She babysits, we cook for her, make her takeaways and she washes all her clothes here. She has never had a relationship and has always lived on her own. She recently said some horrible things about me to my husband in front of my son..accusing me of not being honest and of being an insecure mother. I am angry that she said this in front of my son. Both do not seem to understand that I do not want this to happen again. We clash on a other aspects too but my son adores her and she adores my son so I don't want her to not come over. When she is over we inevitably do not see eye to eye. We are both generous in nature but we don't seem to speak the same language. I am wondering if this could be a cultural clash..as she want and expects absolute adoration and respect when she arrives, which I can't fully give her. Has anyone had similar experiences??