Ex and I have been split for almost a year, completely for the last 6 weeks. We want to share parental support. I work Monday - Thursday, ex p claims he works all mixture of hours, no set shifts or patterns, no notice of days off etc or any flexibility.
He says that it would be impossible to ask for at least one fixed day off per week even though he works weekends most of the time. The problem is he tells me he wants to have DS whenever he is off work so that means that I can go 5 days without seeing my son - he's only 19 months old. I have asked if we can have a more fixed arrangement say 3 nights each, he claims this is impossible. I pay for all the childcare even if its not used as Ex keeps DS at home some days if he is off. But I can't save any money because of the irregularity. We have no financial arrangement, I pay for everything because I earn the most. I feel like I am making all the sacrifices so he can do is dream job.