Whenever my children go to stay at their dad's house (ever other Saturday night) my DP comes to stay here. Problem is when he comes here, I get no sleep. He fidgets all night, snores, gets up loads to go to toilet, talks etc and I just get no sleep. I've been working long shifts lately and last time he stayed I had to be up on the Sunday morning at 5am. We went to bed at 10pm and I made it clear I needed a good nights sleep (insomniac so need to make the most of my 'good' periods). Anyway, he kept me awake until midnight pestering for sex and talking to me and then woke me up when he went to toilet about 2am and then woke me up again at 3ish by snoring. I was like a zombie at work the next day.
I just can't be arsed with it this weekend and so have told him I want to spend the weekend alone to chill out and catch up on sleep. He is in a major mood saying I should want to spend time with him but I'm just so tired. I want to sleep.
AIBU?