to expect a parent to be a bit more fffing...something!

[soozeedol]

here we go again....and now I'n spitting nails!!...longtime..teasing and bullying in and out of school

When a child in my sons' class at school (P7's) keeps referring to my DS as 'it' and though other kids have tried to be supportive and ask this boy to stop...it doesn't!

Thats my DS just had to come home from being able to play..because this boy is teasing and calling DS 'it'....seems his germs were on the boys football too!
left message for the mother that I would like this to please stop and could she have a chat with her son about it...

Just got a message back...she will see him when he comes in from playing

Jeez, don't spoil his fun eh!!!...ffffsss

YABU to do this via texts between mothers, I think. It doesn't work. But I'm sorry your ds is having a bad time of it.

I would have phoned but I felt too wound up at the time so I sent a text instead...if I'd phoned I might not have been able to catch my tongue

Perhaps as you only sent a text she doesn't really get how big a deal this is to you and your DS. You need to go and talk to his parents face to face.

it's a long story, small village, outsiders, favoured folk, cliches...not been here long...new face, new target, my DS is SN asd/adhd...lack of school support to be effective, subtle bullying, teasing...just glad this is the last week of school and holidays are with us....high school is up next and most of them won't meet each other there... can't come quick enough.
Last time my DS ventured out to play was the last time this boy again made it too difficult...I'm just really upset because my DS is slowly running out of confidence and esteem and barely tries to go out anywhere now...it's a huge issue and I want him to keep trying to take part and be with other kids and do normal things...it's just so upsetting but I'm fed up with it too.

maybe I'm over-reacting...it wouldn't surprise me to know this...I think I'm a bit frazzeled at the moment...

how do I just remove this post altogether?

I'll go cuddle a cushion for a bit :(

My heart actually hurt when I read how it was affecting your son. How awful. Check if they have a bullying policy at school and definitely speak to your son's teacher about it. I think a meeting with teh teacher and parents might do the trick.

we only have this week to go and then he is leaving this school and heading to high school...
we are off to enjoy a good summer and rest...and look forward to a fresh start with what promises to be very good support in place

It's been a very long road for my DS and I'm very proud that he has the strength to have come through a lot of things so well...he's strong inside and that's a good thing...