DH spent nearly 3 weeks in hospital with sepsis/cellulitis following an insect bite.
The bite was small and unremarkable - a tiny red mark near the end of his finger. It happened in the afternoon. A couple of hours later, he hurt his arm, so when the swelling started soon after he thought it was down to the injury. He saw the GP, who prescribed compresses and painkillers.
Fever and sickness came next, and he spent the night shivering and throwing up. He didn't wake me. When I woke and realised what was happening, I called the OOH doctor, and drove him to the hospital where it was based. I dropped him off, quickly filled a prescription for myself, parked then took 19 month DS to find DH.
It took me over an hour to find him. In the 20 minutes I had been away, DH had been sent with a letter to A&E. He had walked across, got as far as reception and promptly collapsed. I kept walking from the car, to the OOH, to A&E, trying to ring him. Finally, I found him in resus, covered in wires & monitors. They were giving him antibiotic cocktails to try and stabilise him. He kept slipping in and out of consciousness. They saved his life.
It took them hours to stabilise him enough to be x-rayed, and a further 5 hours to stabilise him again so that he could be blue-lighted to a different, nearby hospital, where he remained for almost 3 weeks while they tried to get it under control.
He was seen as an outpatient on release. He still had to take antibiotics, and his arm looked like it had been burned. It was weeping and bleeding. He had physio, and was seen reguarly by the plastic surgery team to try to break down the scar tissue, reduce the scarring, and gain full use of his hand back.
This was in October and November last year. The speed in which a small bite nearly killed DH was shocking - he was critically ill in less than 10 hours. Had we been aware of cellulitis, maybe we would have looked further than the arm/hand injury earlier. We'd never heard of it.
As an aside, the support I received here when this happened was amazing, and still appreciated to this day. I'd had a MC 2 weeks earlier, and was laid low with a throat infection that turned out to be resistant to the antibiotics I wasn't allergic to. DH and I are both self-employed, so I was struggling to try and keep money coming in, looking after DS (we have no family locally), and visiting DH in hospital. I was falling asleep while eating, I was so tired. I posted in Chat (I think), a complete blubbering wreck, and received a much needed lifeline. It made all the difference, so if any of you recognise yourself - thank you.
Essay and hijack over - yanbu