DH sis has always been highly strung and hard to get on with. She has strong opinions (so do I) and I'd like to get on with her but find that we rub each other up the wrong way on almost every occasion. I have twins. Just afterthey were born, she confronted me and said that she felt 'I thought she had it easy' She has three boys (her choice ) and is a SAHM. I never thought that and never voiced that. I felt she was trying to put me in my place for some reason.. God knows why. We've clashed on a few occasions but I'm getting fed up with teh way my DH tries to say 'It's just women' He has always put up with her over bearing ways and I try and bite my tongue when she's bossy and snippy with him but can't seem to do it when she's like it with me.
Her dog crapped in someone else's graden the other day and I tried to keep my girls away from it. She did pick teh offending item up bt I still didn't want them playing near the area. She took real offense and snapped 'I've thrown it waay'. I snapped back but then she had the nerve to ask me why I snapped at her.. It sounds petty, I know but she's so odd and weird to be around. It's causing friction with me and DH, who takes her side. Maybe it's me..I don't know AIBU?