Bit of background - Ive been friends with a woman for around 5 years, we met through a mutual friend while we were both pregnant, and my DS and her DD have always been firm friends so we tended to meet up on weekends to let the kids play.
I lost my mam just before xmas last year in horrible circumstances, and although friend had my DS so I could attend the wake, she has never bothered to ask how I am, in fact, I have come to realise that she has never done the 'how are you?' when meeting up, just launched into how shitty her own life is and paid very little attention to anything I said.
I'd once said how down I'd been recently about it all (there had to be an inquest) and she said 'I thought you hadnt seemed yourself'. Surely if you have a friend that you see regularly, you would ask?
DS and I were walking to his school fair at the weekend, and he spotted her DD a few hundred yards down the path. He shouts to her, she is shouting his name, saying 'look mammy, theres X'. Friend ignores this till her DD starts going on and on pointing to my DS.
Friend half turns to us and flaps her hand slightly to my DS, and absolutley cuts me dead.
Then I find she's blocked and deleted me on FB.
I dont think Ive done anything wrong, and have no idea why she's being like this.
She invited me to her Ann Summers party a few weeks ago, which is on tonight, WIBU to turn up A) as if nothing has happened and see her reaction?
B) turn up and ask what the problem is?
C) just not bother going and accept that the friendship is over?
TBH, Im sort of relieved that I am away from her neediness and narcissism, but pissed off that she's dispensed with me without being enough of a grown up to tell me.
WWYD?