but 'you live on an estate you have to be considerate of others'?
I have neighbours,they used to pretend to be friends. The man has the first as his favourite saying.
I work nights, so does his wife. When she is asleep, noone is allowed to make a noise within miles of their house. When I work nights, anyone can make as much noise as they like, especially them!!
When we were 'friends' they stored their untaxed car on my housing ass houses drive. Once we realised what they were like, they reported us for doing the same on our own drive!!
They constantly bang balls against our fence, even breaking it!! 'You live on and estate, you have to put up with it'. We shut our door and get on with our lives!
They have a dog that they keep, they also have other dogs which last a few weeks and are then got rid of. My dog, she has a skin condition. I take her to the vet to keep it under control, it will never be cured. They keep reporting us to the RSPCA! Carry on, they won't take our dog of us, we do llok after her and can prove it!
They reported us to SS! Again carry on, we look after our kids. I wonder if they would be able to take such scrutiny!
I could go on!!
Anyway, back to the origonal question AIBU to think it should be 'you live on an estate you have to be considerate of others' rather than 'You live on and estate, you have to put up with it'?