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to disapprove of shoplifting in any store?

138 replies

BodenBoredom · 21/06/2012 22:21

A good friend regularly shoplifts in supermarkets, through the self-serve checkouts. She shows-off about getting all sorts of things, including clothing, home things, garden stuff, toys, DVDs, loads of food and wine etc, past the eyes of the assistants. She said it's easy and it's their fault for never checking her bags.

She says she wouldn't do it in a small shop, but big stores like Tesco can afford it.

She's a female Worral-Thompson! She also thinks that "everybody's" up to it, and that's why supermarkets are losing money through the self-checkouts.

I know that every now and then mistakes are made. I've accidentally not paid for items in the self-serve, but this is different. I think she even plans what she's going to take.

I know the law's on my side, but am I being up-tight in thinking that shoplifting's wrong, even if it's a giant retailer?

OP posts:
CremeEggThief · 24/06/2012 14:25

StealthPolarBear, :o.
Shush now, cos nobody can be allowed to interfere with my plans to steal all the creme eggs in the world next Easter!!!

McHappyPants2012 · 24/06/2012 14:33

Why have security in the 1st place

StealthPolarBear · 24/06/2012 14:36

Well exactly. I am sure I've set the alarm off before and they've come and checked my receipt - fine. That must have been when I was young and shifty-looking. Now I'm older and look all respectable he just took my word for it Hmm

SparklyTwinkles · 25/06/2012 06:07

I do beleive theres a law that agrees with you! LOL

Frontpaw · 25/06/2012 09:42

I have found that the dodgy folks loiter by the door and wait for someone to go through with loads of bags, then skip through. The alarm goes off, then you, the honest shopper with a million bags, stops, puts down bags, starts trying to figure out what could have a tag on, rummage for your receipt... As the Bad Person saunters off down the road. Its happened to me a coupole of times. I now just say loudly 'wasn't me!' And walk off. They have never asked me.

And as for the bloody tagged food and self-service tills - give me a break! Tagging a piece of chicken???

bogeyface · 25/06/2012 10:09

All the meat in the Tesco Express near me is tagged. I assume that they have had alot of shoplifting.

Not that it makes any difference as you never see a member of staff, and if the alarm does go off it doesnt seem to actually do anything other than give you a headache Hmm

Charliefarlie1192 · 25/06/2012 11:10

i know a few girls (not friends, but friends of friends) who regularly and brazenly shoplift in many different stores. I think the fact they are so hard faced stops them getting caught. One of the girls went to the till at co-op to pay for some bread and the lady on the till asid 'and can you also pay for the things in your handbag' the girl just said NO and flounced off

Floggingmolly · 25/06/2012 11:38

You know perfectly well there is no moral difference between stealing from Tesco and stealing from anywhere else. Why would you even put it to the vote, are you actually in danger of being swayed by this idiot's arguement?
And why are you so worried about her getting caught? She's a thief Hmm

Thumbwitch · 25/06/2012 23:04

My parents used to regularly take in overseas language students over the summer - according to one German lad, it was quite a thing for them to go into London to shoplift something and he must have had a point - they all did it! The Turkish boy who did it was the thickest though - he went into Next and took a pair of trousers and a couple of jumpers - of course even back then Next had the security tags (I'm talking in the 80s here) and he was caught and taken to Marylebone Police Station, from where my Mum had to rescue him after some frantic calls to Turkey to get his Dad to cough up the money.

I didn't know the citizen's arrest thing had been stopped - but when my Mum's handbag was stolen from her car while she was loading the back of it, she caught hold of the thief's t-shirt as he went past but he got away - the police were more concerned with her "assault" of him than the stolen handbag!!! ShockAngry

Floggingmolly · 26/06/2012 09:24

Thumbwitch. Shock. How can you "assault" someone who's just mugged you?

Thumbwitch · 26/06/2012 10:19

You can, apparently. She shouldn't have touched him, they said. Grabbing at him constituted assault!! Awful, isn't it. Angry

Thumbwitch · 26/06/2012 10:20

Sorry, that should have said " could have constituted assault" - she was never charged or anything.

Floggingmolly · 26/06/2012 12:41

And that is why the little shits are so brazen - the law truly is an ass. Angry

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