he's shaved off his beard? He's had a beard for most of our married life, grew one after university and it had become a part of him. He shaved it off 3 weeks ago.
I feel like a bitch saying this about the man I married, but without it, he looks weak.
The family have been telling him how much neater and better it looks, but I keep thinking 'you don't sleep with him'.
He asked me what I think, so he knows I preferred the beard (I was nice about it!) and I don't want to say any more on the subject because I'd be rather annoyed if he tried to manage my appearance.
However, I do compromise in some ways if I know he finds something attractive/unattractive because it makes me happy to have something which makes me extra-desirable to him.
I'm finding myself really unattracted to him at the minute, though I would never tell him this and I'm trying hard not to show it in any way.
Feeling very unreasonable and a bit embarrassed by how bothered I am by this 