To want a hen night 30 years after the wedding?

[thenightsky]

Just that. Back in my days we didn't do this hen-night thing. We just stayed home with parents night before wedding and had an early night.

After reading all the hen night/bridzilla threads on MN and the stag night AIBU to object to DP fucking round thailand for 10 days on stag type threads, I got to thinking ....

AIBU to want my hen night now but 30 years too late?

I fancy massive do in UK or Europe (barcelona etc) with ALL my mates and all of Mumsnet.

am i wrong?

DH said 'go for it'

Seems a bit mid-life crisisy to me. I never had a hen do either, just didn't fancy it, I don't think it's the norm to do a whole weekend/week away anyway. Why do you want a 'hen do' - why not just a night out or a holiday?

RB - good point. Bring me back down to reality.

Am I just pissed of a Friday and being daft?

I never had a hen night and I have been married ten years. I got married when ds was 6 months old and I didn't want to leave him to go out for the evening because he wouldn't take a bottle.

Can I come too.

RT yes yes... we can have joint do!

Ha, I got married a year ago and didn't do a hen night. I was just wondering the other day whether it's too late now I think you should do it.