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To wonder whether the people who have just tricked their way into our house were dangerous or have done little more than ruin our chance of selling?

36 replies

lecce · 14/06/2012 20:51

Our house has just gone on the market and the first viewing booked for 7pm today. I work full-time and dh is sahd (dc 2.10 and 5) so you can imagine the immense effort it takes to get the house in order for a viewing. Dh also has MS, though he is well at the moment but we really try to avoid him pushing himself too much just in case.

So I rushed home from work as early as possible to help clean up. I was home at 4.45 (teacher) and spent a manic hour rushing about tidying up the evidence of the day, trying to put washing away etc. The plan was for dh to take the dc and dog out and go for a meal with them. He was about to leave at 5.45 when I heard him telling someone they were an hour early. I couldn't believe it and then I heard a woman say there must have been a mix-up and that they couldn't come back later as they were seeing a few other houses in the area.

Dh explained we weren't really ready but somehow they ended up coming in - said don't worry about the mess/children/dog etc. They were here about 5 minutes in all and, tbh, something didn't feel right. They didn't ask anything and when I asked where they live now the woman said, "oh just round the corner." She seemed evasive but only after did we think if she lived so near, why couldn't they come back at 7 as arranged.

As soon as they left, we took the dc out to tea as they had been promised and we discussed our impression that these people had been complete time-wasters who just fancied a look at our house. We planned to phone the estate agent tomorrow and ask them where they 'got these people from' and to find out whether it was they who were to blame for the time being wrong.

Anyway, we took our time over tea and then went home - got there just before 7. Needless to say, we didn't complete the tidying up and the hoover was out and the wooden floors (which seem to need sweeping 48 times a day) remained unswept.

At 7 O'clock prompt there was a knock on the door. It was the people sent by the agents to view the house Shock. The dc were hyped up, the house was not pristine. I welcomed them by staring at them open-mouted for a bit...

Anyway, we told them what had happened and they were very understanding. They spent over half an hour here looking around (not a big house) and seemed to really like it. They looked right for it too, iykwim. I am absolutely livid that they have not seen it at its best due to that other pair of nutters. Towards the end, the dc were shouting - it was not what you want from a viewing. At all.

I don't know whether to be livid or scared as well. Who the fuck were those people who basically forced their way into our house. Dh went in the cellar alone with the man which makes me feel a little creeped. The woman was very strident, the man seemed a little shamed, tbh.

Anyone else have anything like this happen?

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EdgarAllenPimms · 14/06/2012 20:53

OMG!
what did your estate agent say?

JumpingThroughHoops · 14/06/2012 20:53

If you have a for sale sign outside, or its advertised on a website, some people do hobby view.

ReportMeNow · 14/06/2012 20:54

How very very odd. Nothing missing?

abitcoldupnorth · 14/06/2012 20:54

Why wasn't the agent with them???

Whenever I've sold anything the agent always comes with any viewers Confused

PenguinFeet1 · 14/06/2012 20:55

I hope you have reported this to the police. Poor you, I would be totally freaked out!

EdgarAllenPimms · 14/06/2012 20:55

i had the same problem (children and dog - not great to have about for viewings) and told my agent we would only have agent-accompanied viewings if they wanted to sell my house. therefore people turning up without an agent would not gain access also (without actually breaking in).

it is possible that these people were confused about viewing time/day, or your EA has cocked up.

captainmummy · 14/06/2012 20:55

Very wierd. Make sure the doors and windows are locked tonight!

And personally i think most people can see past a bit of mess, they are looking at the roomsizes and potential for their furniture, not what you had for lunch.

FiftyShadesofViper · 14/06/2012 20:56

Are they from locally and just nosing? Some people make a hobby of this sort of thing.

Look out for them locally and embarrass them if you see them.

EverybodysSleepyEyed · 14/06/2012 20:57

my colleague had some people convince his builders to show them round his house when it was near completion.

turns out they were nosey neighbours. I think that's what these 2 were as that would explain the mans shame!

Your estate agent may know something (may be a known pair!)

Hope you get an offer from the genuine people!

2rebecca · 14/06/2012 20:58

No, sounds very strange. I think in future you should ensure you get the names of the people you are execting to visit and ask their names before letting them in. Your husband should have asked these people who they were and who sent them at the beginning. it sounds as though he just assumed they were there to look at the house and told them they were an hour early. If he'd asked them who they were they may have told him they were there on the offchance he could show them round, or may have come about something entirely different and been too embarrassed to say they weren't there to look at the house.

NoOnesGoingToEatYourEyes · 14/06/2012 20:58

Any chance they were meant to view something else on the street and got muddled up with the addressees?

FeakAndWeeble · 14/06/2012 20:59

Oh poor you, how completely horrible. And violating. And weird.

Don't know what on Earth they're supposed to do about it but I'd still phone the Police and give them a description of the couple (I don't usually should 'call the police!' but this is just weird and I think it's what I'd do). Also, check nothing's missing - this could have been a sophisticated distraction burglary...

NatashaBee · 14/06/2012 20:59

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melika · 14/06/2012 21:00

Ye, I would check your jewellery and money etc. At the very least, they were very rude to come on spec for a viewing. We never had the agent accompany the viewing when we tried to sell. We gave up after 16 viewings!

Even so, if the people had most of their boxes ticked, I would see no bearing on whether your house was pristine or not.
So chill!!!

SpringHeeledJack · 14/06/2012 21:00

nosy neighbours, I reckon

and do what Edgar said. How well I recall this tie last year, trying to sell- dragging two kids and two dogs round the block 4 ties a day. We could tell which agent had bin round after a while, by the aftershae

brrrrrrrr

it'll all be oer soon, don't worry

Magneto · 14/06/2012 21:00

Shock I'd probably call the police just so they're aware and make sure you keep all doors and windows locked and put valuables out of reach of the letterbox and out of sight of the windows.

oshuk · 14/06/2012 21:00

Is it a good idea to put things which might be 'nice' to a prospective thief, out of sight prior to house sale pics being done? Sorry to jump in and ask on your thread op but it seems appropriate.

annh · 14/06/2012 21:01

Well, I think it's a lesson in not letting people in until you know who they are! Presumably the estate agent gave you the name of the people who were doing the viewing and when we have sold, I have always greeted people at the door by their name, although in most cases they would greet me and give their names first. Did your husband not realise they were not the people you were expecting?

I think the first callers were just chancers who (if they live locally) either saw a For Sale sign or recognised your house in the EA's window, on website etc and decided to have a nosy around.

lecce · 14/06/2012 21:01

Can't believe people would waste others' time just having a nose Angry. We did wonder about informing the police but they did seem more pathetic than scary...I think. Dh did say the only strange thing was that when they saw the rabbit hutch the man mentioned their guniea pigs had recently been eaten by a fox and seemed to enjoy describing the crunchy noise it made Shock.

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Chrysanthemum5 · 14/06/2012 21:01

In Edinburgh people do open viewings (ie anyone can come round) on Thursdays 7-8 and Sunday 2-4. Any chance they thought it was that sort of system and were looking round lots of houses? Still pretty rude though!

lecce · 14/06/2012 21:08

Nothing missing.

You're right dh should have asked their name but (Ididn't put this in the OP as it was long enough Smile) the appointment had originally been for 6 and we changed it to 7. So when they turned up at just before 6 saying that there was a mix-up, it just seemed to fit. We have had a few bad experiences with EAs and I guess just assumed that they hadn't passed on the message. Won't be making the same mistake again.

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mummymccar · 14/06/2012 22:20

The EA didn't arrange for two viewings and cock all the arrangements up did they? The EAs I had to deal with recently were always making an appointment for one viewing and then when they arrived would inform me about another viewing 5/10/30 minutes later.

mynewpassion · 14/06/2012 22:31

Becareful, some people use these opportunities to case the house before breaking into it.

ivykaty44 · 14/06/2012 22:35

I wonder if the first viewers get a call form the agents in the morning asking why they didn't turn up to view the house... Have you thought about the possibility that the first couple got the wrong house for sale?

Sassybeast · 14/06/2012 22:43

How totally bizarre that they presumably knew what time your other viewing was booked for ?

When we put our first house on the market, a youngish woman knocked on the door and asked to look around. She was incredibly pushy and I was alone in the house with a small baby. She eventually left but not before I'd practically had to force the door shut to make her leave. She never did arrange a viewing Hmm