AIBU ....A friend asked me if I would babysit weeks ago I said yes at the time but asked her to remind me nearer the time as I have a terrible memory ...
Weeks passed and as its in a couple of days and she still hadnt been in touch I thought I better phone and still see if the girls were coming , also its fathers day on sun so thought I better organise for the girls to be picked up before 2 as I had asked hubbyy what he wanted and he said he would like a meal with is family....thought this would be ok as she had asked me for one day and i said I would have them from fri-sun ...and had totally forgot fathers day to be honest
So I phoned her and said I was asking if they were still coming over and she said yes is that still ok? to which I said no problem at all just wondering if girls can be picked up on sun before 2 as I was going to take hubby out....then proceeded akward silence for a minute with me then saying if thats a problem I could run them home they live 40 mins from me ...
To which she replied very icy that she would be away to birmingham and husband would be in newcastle ...she was very snooty with me and short and I was left under no illusion that she was really peeved with me for suggesting that the girls go home ....but I didnt know that she was going away for weekend as she never told me what she was doing she just popped up on fb and asked if I would watch them....I wrongly thought she was just going out for a night out...
I felt so pissed off when I hung up because the conversation was very strained and she was very off after that ...It was left with her sayingI will try and sort something out ...AIBU surely if your going away for a weekend you would say at the time !!
Rest of conversation was very strained a,