To not apologise

[AppleCatchers]

Dh was on a promise last night by the time he got to bed I was asleep He said to me this morning have u something to say I said no so now hes gone off to work with a right head on him why should i apoligise its hard work looking after our children and keeping house clean once my head hits pillow im usually gone although i did try to stay awake last night so wibu?

If dp is feeling randy, he gets flirty. I'll usually join in with it and the sex (if it happens - doesn't always) just follows in a very natural and very fun way

With the ex, he thought a hand up the nightie was enough foreplay and that I should go to bed when he did because he was up for it. There was no flirting and build up and it was monotonous so I'd stay up until he was snoring.

Don't promise, OP. If he wants it, make him bloody work for it.

what an idiot !

Sounds like my EXH. Lots of peace-keeping sex provided by yours truly. He too would try it on at night; if I was asleep, or just not feeling like it, then he would 'hint' the next morning. If we didn't have sex by at least the next evening (him having conveniently 'popped' home for lunch) then he would be in a mahoosive strop.

Twatty EA-ing little man.