Went to a really strange birthday party this afternoon held by one of my NCT friends (or should I say acquaintances).
So the history is that initially we all got on alright - however, there was one girl that I always knew did not like me and she made it more than abundantly clear. I managed to stay in touch with most of the people I liked, so have been quite happy and there is one girl that I always considered to be a good friend (although more because she always said how much she valued my friendship than anything else).
In the last year girl I have been good friends with has been acting strange. Like almost every time I ring her and ask her if she wants to meet up it seems she has something else on, and then she is always like "we most meet up more often".
So another girl who I would regard as an acquaintance invited me to party - I was happy to go with DC1. Walked into party and everyone says "oh scrappy it is so nice to see you", "we must meet up more" (except of course for girl who clearly does not like me who manages a frosty hello) - clearly bollocks as I went through a phase of calling them a lot and if I had never called them playdates would never have happened. Girl who is meant to be good friend spent whole party chatting to this woman who I don't like - clearly they are now good friends and I missed the part where she had usurped me. As I get ready to leave women who is friend starts on about how we must meet up.
Quite frankly by this time I have had enough of the lot of them. Should I just dump the lot of them and be done? Or would I be unreasonable to do this and should I give them another chance.