I feel bad because I had a bitof a go/word with a mum at the gym today.
The gym has a soft play area for little kids, there is a door between the soft play and the lounge.
My kids are little so I sat by the door looking into the soft play area. My kds played in there and only came out once. However, another little girl of about 3 was in and outlike a yo-yo. BUT she could not open the door herself so each timeshe wanted out or in I had to stand up go to the door and let her in or out.
Her parents were sat enjoying a meal at the far side of the lounge and obliovious to this.
Eventually I loss my rag - wjisch is not like me- I wentover to the parents and verry politely said- Iam sorry to bother you but do you realise your daughter cannot open the door and I have got up over 10 times for her now. I expected the parents to be mortified but the mother was snotty snd said she can open the door- she has seen her do it this morning.
i am upset as saying something to people isreally out of chararcter for me andI was mega polite and assumed they would apoligise but their reaction hasleft mewondering if I should have just ignored the little girl asking me to help her.