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to think that DM shouldn't prioritise her clubs over me?

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ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:19

Don't get me wrong - I luff my mum and we'd do anything for each other.

I'm just really fuming that she wouldn't nip round to mine to rescue the washing off the line today. The rain was about to lashy down and I didn't really want to intterupt what I was doing. But she said she wouldn't as she'd be late for KnitAndKnatter, well she calls it StichAndBitch, but that's a hole other thread lol.

Now I have to do the complete wash again - its really unenvironmentalky friendly to have to rewash stuff that stinks.

Sigh.

AIBU to think she should revisit her priorities I don't ask for much really?

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OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 01/06/2012 18:35

There are adults out there like that though Toothbrush! I work with one of them. Last week she was complaining because her Mum wouldnt cut her caravan holiday short for two days to cover her childcare on an inset day Hmm

MrsEricBana · 01/06/2012 18:35

This is not at all relevant really but reminded me of the time my neighbour, who has a house here but works in India, texted me from Mumbai to say he had left the dishwasher running when he had left for his flight and please could I go over and turn it off!

ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:40

Don't your mum's do stuff for you? Confused

That's what mum's are for.

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Hopandaskip · 01/06/2012 18:42

what mums are for???

When you are five.

ginmakesitallok · 01/06/2012 18:43

Of course Mums do stuff for their kids - but not rushing round to their grown-up kids houses to take in the bloody washing!

Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:44

Really?

Note to self: "Must put life on hold for grown-up DCs" Hmm

Admit it ribbons - you're extracting the urine aren't you?

MrsEricBana · 01/06/2012 18:44

Why was your thing more important than hers?

lovesthesun · 01/06/2012 18:44

Oh dear! And to think some people have actual problems!

Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:45

Actually, I've got a spare half hour.
Would you like me to make you dinner? Hmm?

MrsEricBana · 01/06/2012 18:45

Wonder what she talked about at Stitchin' and Bitchin'?

ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:47

Because I would of had to get in my car and drive home. She was driving past. She normally nips in often. On the 2 days when I'm at work we comes in and does the dishes and makes the bed for me. Gives me an extra 10 mins in bed lol.

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Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:47
Grin

Precisely MrsEric - "AIBU to think my DD is a Spoilt Madam?"

katkouta · 01/06/2012 18:47

erm, no thats definitely not what Mums are for.

ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:47

she comes in not we

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MrsEricBana · 01/06/2012 18:48
Grin
Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:48

Now I know you're on a wind-up after that last post!! Shock

Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:49

Were you a "delicate child" OP?

ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:52

Not delicate Salmon. But I am an onlie - so maybe we have a more closer relationship than others?

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Helenh90 · 01/06/2012 18:54

Oh my word, u do know what being an adult is don't u?? I've been in that situation before but it never occurred to me to ask my mum to take MY washing in for me! U are being deadly serious though aren't u?! It worries me that there are 'adults' out there like u Blush

PennieDreadful · 01/06/2012 18:55

Nobody's spelling is that bad. NOBODY's. There is no WAY you can spell 'relationship' and not 'only'.

Now own up. At once.

Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:56

Well, I've known lots of only children who are very independent self-reliant people.

I have a close relationship with my Mum but she would never have encouraged sloth.

lovesthesun · 01/06/2012 18:57

Anyone else tempted to report? For being a spoilt madam, if nothing else.

Salmotrutta · 01/06/2012 18:58

Oh - and not to be picky (well, not too picky anyway) there isn't an "n" in my username. Grin

ribbonsandrainboughs · 01/06/2012 18:58

Why does it worry you Helen? My mum is happy to help me out. So she does.

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jeee · 01/06/2012 18:58

My mum's never taken my washing in for me - sure, she lives 200 miles away, but you'd think she could get in a car, drive over, and strip the line if it's raining

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