More a what would you do
DS1 has just started pre-school nursery. He has made his first little friend (as in he chose him not me). Anyway, he was meant to be having a play-date today but his mother cancelled because her daughter was sick this morning. DH thought he had a great idea that I could offer to pick DS and his little friend up and they could come back here (we live 5 mins from the nursery) and then she could come and pick her DS up when she is ready (I thought this might be a nice gesture).
Problem is that when I called mother I think she got the wrong end of the stick and that I was asking if we could still have the playdate as before. She started saying she that she would need to get a carseat for my DS. I explained what I meant again - but now I am worried I have put her off and she thinks that I am being really pushy.
The only reason why I offered is because in the past I know I have let good friends go because I have failed to make an effort with them in a meaningful way. Now I feel I am being too pushy. I need mums net to tell me whether this was too much!