to have not done anything all day

[minesapintofwine]

The kids (well theyre only 4 months old but still..) have been at my mums since 10am its now 5 and hubbys on way home with them. The only thing I have done is clean the steriliser which was bogging and buy dh birthday prezzy. Ive sat on my arse all day have just washed dinner dishes so I dont get shouted at and dog is looking at me with pleading eyes to go for a walk. My house is a tip but today I just cant be bothered. Im in a stinking mood with everyone and anyone even the poor young new mum whos tiny baby was crying in the shop when I should know how she feels as my baby was screaming in public just two days ago feel like such a cow but Im definately on one today. Best to hibernate I think. Dont feel well rested just lazy and thats not me usually so Im taking time off from my usual self! so aibu to deliberately not be superwoman just for today? (it wasnt my plan btw!)

Does you good to do feck all for a bit.

Go for it!

You haven't done nothing, you did all those things you said. Does it matter if you had done nothing though? Who would it affect negatively? It is worrying that your partner would shout if you didn't wash up.

well ok he wouldnt shout but eyebrows would be raised in that way they do that expresses theyre opinion without saying a word. Youre right though I havent done nothing Ive sat on my bum all afternoon- now thats something!

We all need a day when we just sit on our bum doing not very much, especially important to have those days when you are exhausted mother of a young baby. yanbu.