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AIBU in thinking that people that pour tea into their baby's bottle...

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Facebookhurtsmybrain · 22/05/2012 17:47

ARE CHAVS?

I've just seen a woman in the park pour a cup of tea into her baby's bottle, add milk and then give it to her baby. Is this some sort of chavy behaviour or do normal people do this?

AIBU in thinking WTF

OP posts:
Noqontrol · 22/05/2012 18:05

Chav means what it means though Hilly. What else could it mean?

GnocchiNineDoors · 22/05/2012 18:06

Tea should not be given to babies. Nothing should go into bottles but milk.

YANBU.

FatherHankTree · 22/05/2012 18:06

DD used to have tea from 18 months, I thought it would help wean her off the bacardi breezers.

PickledFanjoCat · 22/05/2012 18:06

I didnt get chamomile I got typhoo. I am prone to the odd violent outburst.

HillyWallaby · 22/05/2012 18:06

And it will make your baby go into a really deep sleep so you can go to the pub without a babysitter. Especially if you add a drop of nightnurse and voddy.

sue52 · 22/05/2012 18:07

My Mother used to give us all tea to drink from about a year onwards. The word chav was not in common use back then. So far none of her children has been violent or lived in social housing and we are normal. Don't be so silly OP.

Anewstart · 22/05/2012 18:08

I grew up on a council estate and was told during my first year of uni that 'I didn't look like I was from a council estate' Confused

I should have asked what they did expect ..

Softlysoftly · 22/05/2012 18:09

Its got sod all to do with sugar, the caffeine in tea blocks iron intake and iron deficiency is incredibly prevelant in all classes of children in this country so yanbu to think "idiot".

YABU to ask Chav or normal.

Oh and a chavvy is actually a gypsy child originally so unless the mother was about 8 and Romany then no, she wasn't a Chav.

Debeezandbirds · 22/05/2012 18:09

Council House and Violent? You could tell she was violent from the way she gave her child a bottle, fucking hell OP you should work for the police, violent crime would plummet.

sue52 · 22/05/2012 18:10

Did your mother give you tea as an infant Anewstart?

VolkswagenBeetle · 22/05/2012 18:11

Only Hooray Henrys use the word chav. I gave both my dds tea in bottles/sippy cups from about 15 months onwards, they're both still alive and well. I don't smoke either, although I did push a pram. Hmm

PickledFanjoCat · 22/05/2012 18:12

I saw someone give Pepsi in a bottle once.

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VonHerrBurton · 22/05/2012 18:13

Lady Grey or Mantunna?

Sirzy · 22/05/2012 18:13

Well I can't see why someone would give a caffeinated drink to a child but I can't say it would bother me to see as much as it does when I see young children drinking coke but that's my personal judgy pants moment

HecateTrivia · 22/05/2012 18:14

I hate seeing tea in bottles. I know why, it's because of where I grew up. I'm the daughter of a (now ex of course) miner, grew up on a sinkhole estate in a mining village.

I'd see toddlers wandering around the street in their dirty clothes with their dirty face and a bulging dirty nappy - gulping from a bottle of tea.

I hate it. It reminds me of everything I hated about that life. Listening to women getting beaten up, listening to people staggering home from the pub and fighting, listening to people chatting away how that fuckin doin pal aint seen y fer fuckin ages shall we guh t fuckin pub then? seeing children being called little fuckers and little bastards so much they must have thought that was their name, watching kids get knocked off their feet by their parent and all the time, in the background, that damned bloody 'bockle o' tea'

I hate hate hate hate hate it.

Hullygully · 22/05/2012 18:15

So long as it's Earl Grey

fallingandlaughing · 22/05/2012 18:18

If so then the entire population of Japan are, as you put it, chavs. My Japanese SIL and all her family, friends, vague acquaintances etc give kids tea.

They all seem OK.

HillyWallaby · 22/05/2012 18:18

Only Hooray Henrys use the word chav.

Oh, the irony.

Hullygully · 22/05/2012 18:19

Or Lapsang

BumpingFuglies · 22/05/2012 18:20

Definition of chav according to dictionary.com

*? n
informal , derogatory ( Southern English ) a young working-class person whose tastes, although sometimes expensive, are considered vulgar by some *

usualsuspect · 22/05/2012 18:21

You can't say hooray henry on MN , you can say chav though Wink

sue52 · 22/05/2012 18:23

One of my earliest memories is of drinking tea out my Grandmother's special dainty china and feeling very grown up. It felt as I was joining a special club. I am a total tea addict now though, at least 20 cups a day and strong brown tea that can dissolve a spoon.

BumpingFuglies · 22/05/2012 18:23

Oh yes I can usual

HOORAY HENRY!

See, I shouted it.

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