Just to be clear, said friend has no children and he does not collect benefits himself.
I was talking to him yesterday about how my salary at work has been brought up, and my line manager thinks I should get a raise at the next review. Hooray thinks I. Friend said that whilst he agrees for what I do I should be paid more, but did I really want a pay rise as it will affect my benefits. I said yea, but it's all relative and whilst I know I'll still receive some, I'd like to be less dependent on them and prefer to have money earned rather than given to me.
His response was "yea but it's just a load of hassle notifying them all of the change and everything".
I thought his attitude stunk and wondered if there were people actually receiving benefits who think like this? "No thanks, I don't want to be paid more from the company's money as I'll just get given it from the state instead".