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to not complain in case I spoil it for everyone? (Long)

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Debeez · 19/05/2012 09:55

Morning. May out myself here. :o

Had an amazing opportunity, DS, his friend and his DM and I all spent the night in a museum. A huge sleepover with activities and free food and drinks, £3 per child, adults go free. Amazing, sign me up and can I please come to the next one? This is part of a trial scheme across the UK and the evening started with us being referred to as honored guests, the first people ever to do this in our local museum. Felt very lucky.

It was awful, glowsticks were given out by the staff. When the staff left them unattended on a high shelf parents helped their children help themselves to more. Some parents had up to five for themselves. This result in staff panic about running out as not every child had been offered one at this point. I was embarrassed for my city, this set the tone for the evening.

Children were climbing on displays, hiding the parts of the treasure hunt, the staff were volunteers and couldn't be everywhere at once. The parents really let the side down.

Bed time was 12 midnight with total silence expected by 12:30. Age group was 7 - 9 year olds. Now children are not going to settle straight away, they're going to giggle and shout when lights are turned off and flash torches. Great, they're having fun, fair enough. What I wasn't prepared for was the parents, loud and shouting, swearing at kids, laughing on with mates when their children asked them to shush.

(There were always staff available at front desk but no one dared complain, no one was going to be asked to leave at 2am and you do feel very vulnerable sleeping in a huge room with the people you've just complained about.)

We're going to be asked to give feedback of the night.

Would it be wrong to say the whole thing was amazing with no issue (not the staff's fault about the parents) in case they then decide it's not worth doing in my area and no one else gets a chance?

Or do I raise the issue of better supervision required for parents so they have a chance to put it right? Which would result in more enjoyment for everyone.

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EmpressOfTheSevenStars · 19/05/2012 11:04

We took part in a family sleepover at the Science Museum a few years ago, and it was fabulous. There was an induction first where expectations were made very clear, though - maybe that helped. I remember a certain amount of giggling and mucking about at bedtime but it wasn't that bad.

I'd go with the sandwich too. And the form for parents to sign is a good idea.

bigjoeent · 19/05/2012 11:16

I'd follow some of the excellent suggestions already made on feedback and making some suggestions about how it could work better. Don't worry about the negative ones, I bet a number of the volunteers will already have made those.

bigjoeent · 19/05/2012 11:16

Ooh but stress how much your children enjoyed it too.

Babycameearly · 19/05/2012 11:47

Not read the whole thread as I'm on my phone so don't know if you're sorted but a good trick with things like this is the primary school ´2 claps and a wish' peer feedback thing where you say 2 positive things then 1 negative thing you wish could be changed or worked on.

Debeez · 19/05/2012 14:45

3littlefrogs Just wanted to point out there were other families there who followed all the rules. Just the louder awful ones seemed to take over the evening. We were given a clear run down on how we were expected to behave at the start of the evening.

Going to respond that loved the evening and son thoroughly enjoyed however but we would certainly be interested in attending again.

Thank you all for your responses. Don't feel such a killjoy now :o

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