Really hoping I don't get outed in RL here!
A friend was supposed to be having 10yr old DD for tea after school tonight. Admittedly as a favour to me but we have the kind of friendship when favours can be asked!
She told me at the beginning of the week that she planned to take DD with her DCs and a friend with DD out for pizza instead. All fine. I said actually I might come to if that's ok with younger DC.
Then yesterday she said instead they would be going to a pub after school. This is something she does every now and then. Never with my DD though.
Whilst I am sometimes in need of a glass of wine after pick up this is very much a small drinking pub. No garden or anything like that. So kids would sit outside on benches near road. Whilst adults were inside.
I said I felt uncomfortable with it and would rather pick DD up myself and take her out for tea (apart from anything else DD was disappointed not to be going for pizza after friend had told her that plan).
AIBU? A nice pub with a garden to run round in then yes. But I just don't feel it's appropriate. DD is very upset as she worries her friend will think she's a baby for not going.