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saw something horrible online

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JL09 · 15/05/2012 22:29

I can?t actually believe what I have just seen I?m really stressed out. I am wondering what I can do with what I found I have no idea the time frame the country or anything, only it?s a horrific clip going around face book and twitter. I have decided to send it to a few email addressed from the guardian paper cannot find and email on the NSPCC or the BBC? have no idea if this will even do anything or if I?m fighting a lost cause. A needle in a hay stack situation. Any ideas on what a can do with this link I saw?? Im just so sad :(

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BumpingFuglies · 15/05/2012 23:38

Lying - OP posted about it, not the link. She was sharing feelings and if they are anything like other people's, she needed an ear.

FuckShitBollocks · 15/05/2012 23:43

Horrific Sad

my2centsis · 16/05/2012 00:04

i was in absolute tears watching this. Why did know one step in? she was only jailed for 18months?? that is REDICULOUS! they dont know if she will get custordy back? seriously?!!

I have never wanted to torture someone before now.

I feel extra grateful to my kids right now. my $yo keeps asking why i keep cuddling her and telling her i love her. My 5mo old keeps pulling my hair because of all the cuddling!

This is not the ops fault ffs she was upset (as we all are) and wanted to share her feeling and ask for help to report it> I also didnt know that it was last year that it happened

my2centsis · 16/05/2012 00:04

wow typo's

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 16/05/2012 00:05

I watched the whole video with sound.
Not for some voyeuristic ghoulish pleasure but to see what it was people were getting so angry about.

My God, the 'mother' is a cold hearted bitch no mistake.
Her face did not show any expression throughout. She rained slaps and blows on that child almost to get a response from her. When that poor tiny girl crawled towards her, she was rejected with a slap to the head,arm or leg.

In all my worst moments when I have thought that my DC were ganging up on me just because they could I would walk into another room.

I read as well that she was 18 yo, a rape victim - does not excuse this.
And the fact someone saw fit to video this suggests it was not an isolated incidence.
Hoping she never gets within a 100 miles of this baby girl.Or indeed any other children.

JL09 · 16/05/2012 14:01

Hello and good afternoon!

Thanks to all who have inboxed me and got back to me here! someone showed this to me and i had to stop and think is this just another Horrific clip or news story or news broadcast im just going to see and move on or am i going to try and look further into it. Thats why i wrote to newspapers and on here... I am very sorry to Those of you who are deeply hurt and shocked by this, I was and am still. The world in which we live has many situations like this and worst. Greatful Grateful to the individuals who make a difference, grateful to the ?friend? who reported this 18 year old. Thankfully the child is now safe and as I said anyone with further info can inbox me? I will now end the thread and delete it. Thanks again and try and have a good day and remember the good and appreciate what we have. Lots of love x

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EldritchCleavage · 16/05/2012 14:07

Oh, for fuck's sake! This mindless repetition and passing on of deeply distressing links is just mindless bullshit. So you help to disseminate this torture porn, say you're going to 'look into it' (who are you? JLO of the Yard?) then give us some trite homily and say you'll get the thread deleted. What pointless bollocks. People pass this stuff on because they are voyeurs who love the drama of the whole thing. It disgusts me.

JL09 · 16/05/2012 14:13

eeerrrr eldritch lol if you would like o help me remove it please tell me how!!

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CallMeAl · 16/05/2012 14:15

Agree Eldritch. And the mawkish "ooh what can we do about it" bullshit that is really just a cover for voyeurism. You can do NOTHING, not least because its in another country and has already been dealt with.

There are plenty of things you could do in the real world if you want to help children, get off the internet, stop posting awful links and fake whining about how awful it is while sending it on for others to goo over, and do something useful instead.

Kitchendiva80 · 16/05/2012 14:15

I was disgusted and in tears watching this. My gorgeous beautiful girl is the same age and it just chills me to the bone thinking that someone could do this. No matter how frustrated or sleep deprived I could never make her cry hurt or reject her in that way. Apparently she is serving 18 months. Doesn't seem enough. Hope the baby is safe with people who will love her like deserved.

EldritchCleavage · 16/05/2012 14:18

Report your own post using the report link on the OP.

ChickensHaveNoLips · 16/05/2012 14:23

Well said, Eldritch.

Tee2072 · 16/05/2012 14:25

It's the internet. Once it's out there, it's out there. It will never be completely gone.

porcamiseria · 16/05/2012 14:34

I hate to say this, but ignorance really is bliss

cant even watch

BRAIN BLEACH

ScarletLadyOfTheNight01 · 16/05/2012 14:40

If anyone of my facebook friends posted this, I would delete and block. I haven't seen the clip but reading the DM link has me in tears. Why would people share this? (I have no problem with the person who posted the DM link, they did mention it was distressing). It's like the opposite of Glory hounds...Despair hounds maybe? Reminds me of people who post stories about murdered children saying "oooh rest in peace little angels". Never understood it, I really haven't.

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