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Am I heartless?

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Magneto · 15/05/2012 17:21

I get the train to and from work and you can pretty much guarantee that once a week I will be asked if I can spare any change to help a stranger get home as they don't enough for the train. They normally produce 20p/£1 to demonstrate their lack of funds.

Generally the people are different each time but a couple I now recognise because they have asked me more than once. These people have been all sorts of nationalities and as the area gets a lot of tourists I do always try to stop when a stranger asks a question because a lot of the time all they want is directions but if they ask for money I always decline.

I still worry that some of them might be genuine. So am I a heartless bitch or would you do the same?

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lololizzy · 15/05/2012 19:49

DizzyKipper, the man I mentioned earlier, it turned out he wanted it for booze, whereas his story was always about the train. He later admitted it. But didn't stop him asking regularly...'well you gave it to me before' (yes, but that was after the sob story about being short on train fare)

lololizzy · 15/05/2012 19:50

it's true, genuine cases often won't ask, and may even refuse help at first!

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