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To think that my mum should recieve benefits while she is ill after working and conributing her whole life?

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Alisonjayjay · 14/05/2012 14:25

My Mum is 57. She has worked her whole life since leaving school at the age of fifteen. She's never been in a great paid job but has been proud of herself for working hard and paying her way in society. She's never been able to buy a home of her own or save but instead she has worked hard and got by with what she had. She put food on the table for us and taught us the value of working and being inde pendant. Both me and my brother went to college and university snd now I work as a nurse and my brother is also employed full time. Two years ago my mum had breast cancer. She was absolutely devastated and had to go on sick leave from the job she had for the last 20 years as a school caretaker and cleaner. She had never taken a single day off and loved her job. She left and went through chemotherapy and radiotherapy as well as surgery to remove the breast but became very weak. She got through the treatment but developed severe lymphodema in her arm which prevented her going back to work as she didn't have use of her arm so her employer couldn't offer her old job back and made her redundant. During this time she also learned that she had arthritis in both knees and would need to go in for further surgeries on her breast and also knee replacements in both knees. Her health started to deteriorate and she suffered from a flare up of psoriasis and started attending hospital for light therapy as well as admissions as an inpatient for skin treatments. She attends the hospital weekly for different appointnents to see cancer specialists, surgeons, dermatologists, urologists and she has attended for various investigations discovering she has peptic ulcers and and stomach problems. During this time my Mum applied for employment support askance which would be based on contributions she had made to national insurance. She had to attend a medical and was told she was fit for work and therefore wouldn't receive benefit. She had to appeal and eventually started receiving a small amount. This April the payments stopped and she was told she was no longer entitled to any money as she was only allowed to claim for a year. My dad is 58 and on a low income of less than £180 a week. He can afford to pay rent on their council house and buy basic shopping

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redexpat · 14/05/2012 14:43

I don't think we're the people you need to compain to. Try your MP. Also go to the CAB and see if there are any other benefits she's entitled to. Your Dad might be eligible for carer's allowance if she's ill.

Olympia2012 · 14/05/2012 14:45

Why so many threads on this? 3 in aibu so far..

Alisonjayjay · 14/05/2012 14:47

Woops sorry posted on my phone. Didn't realise I posted 3 times. I'm just wondering what people think. Isn't that the point in these forums

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ZZMum · 14/05/2012 14:59

I think it is awful what has happened to your Mum and I would share your need to vent about it - whilst I am not the biggest fan of our benefits system, it does seem ridiculous that your mum is not entitled to anything .. have you appealed this decision - how can it only last a year when her health is no better?

JosieZ · 14/05/2012 15:11

If she is 'fit' to work can't she get job seeker's allowance?

Fooso · 14/05/2012 15:15

I can only say through family experience that over the last 6 months they have tightened the rules on who can claim. I know 2 people who have been on benefits and have both been forced/encouraged back to work. There simply is no money left in the pot anymore and they have made the criteria very tight. 2/3 years ago she would have got it no problem!

Rollersara · 14/05/2012 15:18

Doesn't she get DLA? My mum did when she had breast cancer, I think she still does...

Trickle · 14/05/2012 15:28

I think it's disgusting and fwiw I've been part of campaigns about this since 2008 (yes that is how long this farce has been planned for). Keep the appeal going if it is agreed she should be in the support group then she is exempt from the 365 day cut off, and even if she is only put in the WRAG there will be money owed from the top up she should have been getting. What really stinks is she will miss out on all the specialist help to get back to work that may have helped her.

Your parents should have a full benefit check, she should probably apply for DLA as from the sounds of it she may have care needs and maybe mobility. Your DF will only be entitled to carers allowance if he earns less than £100 a week and is working less than 21 hours. Other than that there is council tax benefit, housing benefit and possibly working tax credit.

I'm sorry it's so crap - get some legal advice if you can, CAB, CLAN or CLAC will be abel to help, your local authority will be abel to tell you where they are

FYP · 14/05/2012 15:29

Go to the CAB get a benefit check, ESA/HB/CTB/DLA

Also at my CAB there is an ongoing social policy campaign that is currently lobbying parliament and the European Court of Human Rights to rescind the automatic stoppage of ESA past 12 months. There is a case going through court right now and if successful then people who are/were entitled to ESA after 12 months may be able to get the money back. Need to fill out a form at CAB.

porcamiseria · 14/05/2012 15:34

Its shit. definately fight it. x

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