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to be scared of this woman and unsure what to do?

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BeNiceOrLeave · 14/05/2012 11:11

I am rarely scared of anything but I am feeling increasingly threatened by my mom's next door neighbour.

In the past week she has:

Accused my 2yo of throwing rocks over her 6ft fence.
Told me she 'saw the little bastard do it'.
Told my mom she 'couldn't give a fuck' about him and she would make sure he got said rocks back...
Smashed their satellite dish.
Hurled abuse at repair man.
Shoved my mother nearly to the floor.
Stuck fingers up at me and sister while driving.
Scrawled awful grafitti on my parents garden
wall.
Accused my dad of abusing my mom.

She has lived there 15 years and only got like this with my parents a couple of months ago. I think she is ill but what can i do about it? She has always been like this with neighbours on other side, getting the guy there arrested for after claiming he attacked her. She has also accused another neighbour of trying to poison her.

DS wants to go round to his grandparents but im freaked out. i can't leave him in the garden.

What can i do??

OP posts:
edam · 14/05/2012 13:44

As well as the cops and mental health services, do call your local authority's anti-social behaviour team - they should be logging incidents and dealing with nuisance neighbours. Even if she is ill as opposed to nasty.

Pendeen · 14/05/2012 15:06

"... If she rents it contact the council or housing association as it is their responsibility for tenants causing anti-social behaviour. ..."

Is this true, are HAs really responsible for the actions of their tenants?

If so, are private landlords also responsible?

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