Briefly, I am very pissed off with a friend of mine.
She keeps making arrangements with me and then just doesn't show. Now I can be a tad unreliable myself but I always text and try to let people know in good time plus I am a lone parent and one of my children has SN so its hard to be on target sometimes.
Friday is the third occasion she has arranged to do something with me and then just not showed up. The time before that she arranged to come with me and my children to the cinema, I got them ready and all excited to go, she didn't turn up and then phoned, clearly pissed up to say she had fallen asleep. I let it go. In fact I am always letting it go.
We arranged to go out on Friday, I got childcare (no easy task) and texted her chasing her a couple of times. She finally got back to me late in the evening AFTER I cancelled my childcare and it would obviously be too late for me to go out. I didn't even answer the phone, was too pissed off. I have just recieved a message now saying "what happened to you on Friday, thought we were going out?" So not only did she let me down but is now trying to turn it around and put it on me.
What shall I say? Or shall I just let it go AGAIN? She does not have children of her own so maybe she doesn't "get" it. I don't know. It is the message trying to spin it onto me that has irritated me 
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