I've had a text message conversation with XP over extra contact over summer. He's claiming he informed me at the beginning of the year when he wanted the kids, it just so happens that dates he wants clashes with our now booked family holiday.
He has told me jack shit about when he wants them, I know he hasn't told me because since Christmas DH has been collecting the DCs (I've had terrible morning sickness so DH went instead of me) and it's really yanking my chain that he's claiming we've had a discussion that never took place.
He does this all the time, in his world I nearly always forget when he wants the DCs extra during holidays, and I lose most of his texts involving changes of plans.
He's obviously trying to guilt me in to changing my holiday dates and I just know that when he sees the DCs he's going to tell them I deliberately booked our holiday on those dates.
He's now saying ''I don't want to argue about this'', well if he didn't want to bloody argue, he shouldn't go around claiming conversations that never happened. I have actually told him this.
I know this is petty and I've read truly heartbreaking stories from women who have horrendous x's, but I'm just sick to the back teeth of this man being so scatty and disorganised, and then trying to wiggle out of it by claiming I'm 'forgetful' and thus placing the blame on me in the eyes of the DCs.