Aibu to be fuming at dh?

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He took our 7 months dd out so I can get a little break/clean.

He came back with a take away and admitted to me that he left dd in the car when he went to order the take away.

He doesn't understand why I am cross with him.

Aibu to be very very very angry?

Ah, thanks for clarifying noq.

Bumdrop I didn't mean it to be cheeky. It's just it was the kind of reaction I'd have had when dc1 was a similar age, but by the time dc2 was that age I realised that dh could actually make his own decisions as a parent and that I could trust them. And that 2 minutes on their own in the car, whilst in full view, isn't actually a problem.

You need to start letting go. Parenting is one long bumpy journey of losing control.

You need to talk to dh and accept that he is an equal parent to you allowed to make his own decisions. Chat about your concerns, and agree what you both think is acceptable.

I left mine in the car if I could see them.