Advice badly needed. In a nutshell my oh and I have always had a rocky relationship. We split at the end of last year, one of the reasons is because I was fed up with him trying to bully me into buying a car with him. I like the Independence of having my own car, he says my Pug 206 estate isn't big enough for a family of 5 and kept creating major arguments that we should by a bigger car to share. Also he wanted me to give up my successful ebay business which I enjoy so that I can work with his even more successful business because we could make more money that way. My argument has always been that I love my work and wouldn't enjoy selling what he does and working with him. I get great personal satisfaction and pride from doing my own thing and have no problems paying the bills.
Anyway he agreed when we got back together in December that he should stop pressurizing me because I obviously enjoy what I'm doing..............All good for 5 months, then we went on holiday 3 weeks ago and he got drunk twice and was horrible, saying I was a selfish bitch, wasn't committed to being a family and that he didn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to work with him. That blew over and again he apologised. But today he announces that he doesn't want our nearly 2 year old to go to nursery twice a week because he's too young, my oh wants to stay at home and have him.............result - I won't be able to use those 2 day to work from home as lo would be there and I can't afford to rent somewhere to work. So again he's trying to ruin my work as far as I can see. We've had a major argument and I've said I've had enough and want out. I feel he's trying to control my life, all I want to be able to do is stay off of the dole and pay my own bills. What do you think?