To not be happy about dp going to Oktoberfest?

[Monica2012]

Oktoberfest fest is a beer festival in Germany, where barmaids in skimpy clothing serve copious amounts of beer over a few days. Dp would like to go this year with a group of his mates, some of whom I find a bad influence and are regular cheats on their partners. AIBU?

YANBU if you´re unhappy because you´ll miss him.

YABU if you think he´ll cheat if his friends do.

I'd love to go too.

Judging by the OP's other thread, she's just exceptionally needy about her partner being out of her sight at all.

YABU
:o at barmaids in skimpy clothing, it's traditional Bayern clothing and many are oap age, and yes they easily carry 10 1l glasses at the time.

The Stuttgarter one is much better though.

Is this about him spending the lottery win?
Specifically about this:
"£2000 and he's treating you both? I don't see the problem.

But If he won £2000 and bought himself a week in Amsterdam I'd be a bit cross

YANBU. None of their business."

Because Oktoberfest does not equal the red light district of Amsterdam.
YABU

I want to
Go!!!!

My partner went and it all seemed harmless nice beer tents and om pa pa bands. With all that lovely beer ladies were the last thing on their minds!

YABU.

I'd love to go to Oktoberfest. It's in my bucket list.

From looking at your past threads I'd say you have a big problem with your DP. Almost all of them are moaning about him going out.

You obviously don't trust him and you need to work that out.

If he's given you any reason to doubt his fidelity, YANBU.
If he's not given you any reason to doubt his infidelity, YABU.

I wouldn't mind DH going.

I want to go. We went to Munich for Xmas fair, but the DDs were too small to remember.

YABU. My DP is going :o