My friends partner left her this year for someone who was a friend of ours she was totally devastated and heartbroken..through all of this I made sure I was always there for her to talk to at any time of the day because I knew she was struggling...
Fast forward a few months later and she starts dating again at first I was pleased because I thought it would just be what she needed to move on...
The first man she met she announced that she had fell for him really big this was after a week !
I just thought it was sweet that she liked him so much however he never was really that intrested in her so it fizzled out...
I helped her pick up the peices again by making sure I was always there with a friendly ear but suggested perhaps she should wait a little while and just concentrate on the kids etc..
Fast forward a few weeks and she tells me she has met someone and its love this is after a week ? she met this man on a dating site and its true love even though they havent met face to face ...not wanting to be the big bad wolf I just kept my mouth shut because she sounded happy even though I did think its hard to love someone you have never even met...but hey ho sometimes these things work!
After listening to her gush about him a few days later she has told me he is married and that he has lived with his wife for years but they dont love each other!! and just live as friends also they never have sex and never even kiss he also told her that he sleeps in another room!!!
hmm alarm bells are ringing she brezzily said well I looked at his fb page and there are hardly any pics of them as a couple so it must be true...I feel really uneasy about this because her partner cheated on her and she was left devastated she knows how it feels I also took her side over it and fell out with the other woman involved because I couldnt believe she could be so cruel to another woman and take her partner....
now I feel pissed off because of the morals of the whole thing and I have tried to say to her that this sounds to me as if he is lying .... and very classic .
I checked out his fb page and there are pictures of him and his wife and children looking like any other happy family ...
she cant seem to see the irony in all this and I dont want to fall out with her but I feel uncomfortable with the whole thing and see it all ending up a big mess with me having to listen to it all.... AIBU should I just keep my opinion to myself? I am married and keep thinking about how I would feel if it was me ...its also making me see her in a differant light!!